Adulese Games Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 Okay how about some advice giving time. I'm kind of into this girl that goes to my school. She's cute, funny and enjoys just about everything I do (besides Halo because I always beat her at it). Problem is that … she's one of my best friends. If you've been in this position, you understand. Now normally I am pretty good with girls, but I really don't want to screw up our friendship. However, EVERYONE I know says she is into me. Anyway, any suggestions?- Adulese Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
demon xxx x Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 Just go for it? All I can say, lol, sorry man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fruitpunch Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 @[SB:> Teh Adulese link=topic=38982.msg379233#msg379233 date=1235163645]> Okay how about some advice giving time. I'm kind of into this girl that goes to my school. She's cute, funny and enjoys just about everything I do (besides Halo because I always beat her at it). Problem is that … she's one of my best friends. If you've been in this position, you understand. Now normally I am pretty good with girls, but I really don't want to screw up our friendship. However, EVERYONE I know says she is into me. Anyway, any suggestions?> > - AduleseTell her how you feel. Get her alone one night and let it all out. If that doesn't work you tell her you are sorry and you were naive. Most of the times its the girl who doesn't want to fuck up the friendship so you should be fine. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adulese Games Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 Nice DezireSoft. I listened to what you said. And I thought about it. And now I think I need some more opinions. xD- AduleseEDIT: Thanks Fruit. I may do it, but I probably will feel it out a bit more first. Wait … are you saying I'm a chick ... -.-+ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fruitpunch Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 @[SB:> Teh Adulese link=topic=38982.msg379241#msg379241 date=1235164018]> Nice DezireSoft. I listened to what you said. And I thought about it. And now I think I need some more opinions. xD> > - Adulese> > EDIT: Thanks Fruit. I may do it, but I probably will feel it out a bit more first. Wait … are you saying I'm a chick ... -.-+No I am talking from her perspective. Girls don't like losing friends. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
demon xxx x Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 Oh, another thing, Adulese. If you feel like you love her, just try and get closer to her, then tell her a little about how you feel. Try to have her feel the same for you, and one day, just tell her "There's something I want to tell you" blah blah blah, and say I love you. It worked for me, although Angela did feel the same about me before I even knew.. whatever though, it should work.[offtopic]I request this to become a sticky? all in favor?[/offtopic] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Devogen Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 Pretty girls are over-rated?Lmfao x 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
demon xxx x Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 xD Devogen, WHOREY pretty girls are overrated. :P haha, I'm sure you agree, because there are probably some whores you knew when you were young. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fruitpunch Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 @[SB:> DezireSoftware link=topic=38982.msg379244#msg379244 date=1235164184]> Oh, another thing, Adulese. If you feel like you love her, just try and get closer to her, then tell her a little about how you feel. Try to have her feel the same for you, and one day, just tell her "There's something I want to tell you" blah blah blah, and say I love you. It worked for me, although Angela did feel the same about me before I even knew.. whatever though, it should work.> > [offtopic]> I request this to become a sticky? all in favor?> [/offtopic]^^ knows what he is talking about, trust meShe might also give hints if she likes you. If she ever complains about being single that is your chance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fruitpunch Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 my one ex cheated on me and got knocked up…yeah and that was in 7th grade Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
demon xxx x Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 @Fruitpunch:> ^^ knows what he is talking about, trust meHaha, thanks, but I only know from experience, I guess I could say..[though I've had only 3 girl friends by whole life, not the point.] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fruitpunch Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 @[SB:> DezireSoftware link=topic=38982.msg379252#msg379252 date=1235164469]> Haha, thanks, but I only know from experience, I guess I could say..[though I've had only 3 girl friends by whole life, not the point.]I have had 4 and only really felt for one Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eagle Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 > Okay how about some advice giving time. I'm kind of into this girl that goes to my school. She's cute, funny and enjoys just about everything I do (besides Halo because I always beat her at it). Problem is that … she's one of my best friends. If you've been in this position, you understand. Now normally I am pretty good with girls, but I really don't want to screw up our friendship. However, EVERYONE I know says she is into me. Anyway, any suggestions?> > - Aduleseyeah go for it, worst that can happen is you two will break up and I bet if that happens she will still want to be friends with you. From my experience it’s the guys that have problems being friends after an intimate relationship. Most girls are fine with it as long as it ends well. Now if you go out and screw her friend behind her back and she finds out (and she will find out) then you can forget about being friends with her ever again. But if you are like really bad at sex and are like a preemie or you finish way to fast before she does (every time) she may decide to break it off and move on. This breakup you can still come out friends, I hope this makes sense.Always~Vickie ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
demon xxx x Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 Not to be smart, Eagle, but I don't think he's going for an relationship like that, I think he's just trying to.. I guess, get a girlfriend that he probably long wanted. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eagle Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 @[SB:> DezireSoftware link=topic=38982.msg379264#msg379264 date=1235164976]> Not to be smart, Eagle, but I don't think he's going for an relationship like that, I think he's just trying to.. I guess, get a Blowup Doll that he probably long wanted.LMAO!!! ok then.. :D Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fruitpunch Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 @Eagle:> yeah go for it, worst that can happen is you two will break up and I bet if that happens she will still want to be friends with you. From my experience it’s the guys that have problems being friends after an intimate relationship. Most girls are fine with it as long as it ends well. Now if you go out and screw her friend behind her back and she finds out (and she will find out) then you can forget about being friends with her ever again. But if you are like really bad at sex and are like a preemie or you finish way to fast before she does (every time) she may decide to break it off and move on. This breakup you can still come out friends, I hope this makes sense.> Always~> Vickie ;)I am still friends with all of my ex's but one Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
demon xxx x Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 I'm friends with.. both of my ex's. Weird, isn't it? I pretty much didn't feel for one, and stopped caring[got me dumped haha], the other didn't like me, but, I'm sleeping over her house 'til Sunday, for her brother's birthday[He looks up to me, because I'm good at Guitar Hero]. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drummerpete Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 @Fruitpunch:> I am still friends with all of my ex's but oneSame..I'm never as close to them afterwards though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adulese Games Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 Lol Eagle. That advise was great, then I sensed the direction you were heading. I am really looking for more of a person I can spend time with, understands me and have fun. I'll will take that advice for a bit later in the road …. even though I am going to college next year.OH YEAH. I had two friend (yes their girls, I know ... I need more guy friends) approach me on Friday of last week. Told me that the girl I fancy was down and "told" (when I say "told" I mean threatened to break my legs because they said she likes me) to buy the girl a rose from the school booth. Of course, they ran out by the time I got there, so I bought her two cupcakes (since she loves those things). She appreciated it and now my legs stay unbroken. What do you all make of the scenario?- Adulese Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drummerpete Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 Dude, cupcakes are cheaper than flowers.Plus, they taste alot better..I think you made the right choice.Personally, I would have eaten the cupcakes gone home and sat on the computer, but that's just me. =p Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adulese Games Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 True but then I would have two broken legs … or maybe hands as I don't really use my legs as is.- Adulese Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drummerpete Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 Dude..You're not actually scared of the girls.. do they have big friends? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Adulese Games Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 I don't think you know my friends. The girl who threatened that (which was probably joking at the time) seriously would do it. She's really resourceful … xD Anyway back on topic, any other opinions before I pull the pin on the 'nade and hope it doesn't go off.- Adulese Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drummerpete Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 Just go ask that girl out. *shrugs* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xeross Posted February 20, 2009 Share Posted February 20, 2009 My penis(Dunno if that's been said already)Ok, well they have to have a nice personality and an iq of average or high and unfortunately my standard of looks is pretty high, but sometimes also alternative. Once this girl liked me but she didn't meet the standard and i couldn't fall in love with her :( Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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