Hippoman789 Posted August 9, 2009 Author Share Posted August 9, 2009 Woke up today at 12:00 to my sister coming in crying.One of my friend's (Hugh Bernhagen) dad had just died in a 4 wheeling accident.Now this is just ducking great. Becuase just like 4 or 5 months ago thier daughter got ran over. And they're still trying to get a lawsuit for that.:sad: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Minilinkki Posted August 9, 2009 Share Posted August 9, 2009 I'm really sorry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJDej Posted August 9, 2009 Share Posted August 9, 2009 Maybe now they'll stay away from 4 wheeling. It's a tough world out there, people come, People go, People are born, People die. No point getting upset over it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chief Posted August 9, 2009 Share Posted August 9, 2009 @HayateLigerZero:> Maybe now they'll stay away from 4 wheeling. It's a tough world out there, people come, People go, People are born, People die. No point getting upset over ityeah, now lets see what you would say if someone close to you died. if youre gonna act all "cool" and "manly" about it, then gtfo, youre not helping the situation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJDej Posted August 9, 2009 Share Posted August 9, 2009 @Chief:> yeah, now lets see what you would say if someone close to you died. if youre gonna act all "cool" and "manly" about it, then gtfo, youre not helping the situation."Cool"? "Manly"? On a Forum? Not really. More like being honest. I lost both of my parents at age 12\. Which is way worse then when you're 5 and don't remember them so well. I lost my brother too. And I'm not saying this for you to give me sympathy, Cause I don't want it. I CAN stand on my own. I've lost more people then you even know. I only bothered to reveal a small bit of my past So you realize I'm not a troll. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Myron Posted August 9, 2009 Share Posted August 9, 2009 Ah, could ye all calm down a little. A man died, so Rest in Peace and i hope for the familly of the Daughter and the Dad to have a brighter future to have something to look out for in this cold world. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Bob Firefarter Posted August 9, 2009 Share Posted August 9, 2009 Life goes on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jna Posted August 9, 2009 Share Posted August 9, 2009 I'm sorry for the family, RIP dad and daughter. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chief Posted August 9, 2009 Share Posted August 9, 2009 @HayateLigerZero:> "Cool"? "Manly"? On a Forum? Not really. More like being honest. I lost both of my parents at age 12\. Which is way worse then when you're 5 and don't remember them so well. I lost my brother too. And I'm not saying this for you to give me sympathy, Cause I don't want it. I CAN stand on my own. I've lost more people then you even know. I only bothered to reveal a small bit of my past So you realize I'm not a troll.it still wasnt helping when your greaving, the last thing youw ant to hear is, meh, people die, life goes on… nooo, so shut your mouth and think before you click the little button. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Driocku Posted August 9, 2009 Share Posted August 9, 2009 *click* its true people do die and life goes on, unless everyone dies then human life ceases. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anna Comnena Posted August 9, 2009 Share Posted August 9, 2009 @Chief:> it still wasnt helping when your greaving, the last thing youw ant to hear is, meh, people die, life goes on… nooo, so shut your mouth and think before you click the little button.It might help with grieving, you don't know.I can't believe I had to delete half the posts in this thread. I'm getting so sick of this community. It's sad that a father has died, but death is a natural aspect of life (you can't have one without the other). And given we are strangers I can't feel any need to grieve, but I can only hope that those who must grieve can and will in the way proper for them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted August 9, 2009 Share Posted August 9, 2009 Life Is A Beautiful Melody, Just The Lyrics Are Fucked Up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saida Posted August 9, 2009 Share Posted August 9, 2009 Just like what anna said that it is sad that his friends father had died. Some think Grieving wont do much but be nice people I mean yes people die but when its someone close to you and you want to tell other just so maybe it will make you feel better than someone else cares. But we do half to be dicks about this at all just say im sorry for your loss and I hope you will be better its that simple. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Bob Firefarter Posted August 9, 2009 Share Posted August 9, 2009 I'm sorry, if I come off as an asshole, but I don't grieve that much, especially for people I never knew. I'm sorry for that family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hippoman789 Posted August 9, 2009 Author Share Posted August 9, 2009 Thanks for unlocking it Anna.And thanks DNA for apologizing.I was being a asshole but theres a bunch of shit going on right now and this doesnt make it any easier. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saida Posted August 9, 2009 Share Posted August 9, 2009 I am really sorry for the families loss and I know me saying nothing may not have an effect but I really hope that the family can get threw this hard time and I will pray for them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hippoman789 Posted August 9, 2009 Author Share Posted August 9, 2009 Right now they are having a little party, the crying part is over, now everyone is laughing and telling jokes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
IceCream Tuesday Posted August 9, 2009 Share Posted August 9, 2009 Wouldn't call it a party.. since those are typically for happy events.I'm sorry for your loss. Wish the family the best of luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Myron Posted August 9, 2009 Share Posted August 9, 2009 Ah, i can feel the love in this topic. :azn: ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robin Posted August 9, 2009 Share Posted August 9, 2009 I've had a lot of family die over the last few years. As my Dad had me when he was in his 50's, pretty much my entire family is very old.We've never seen it as a sad thing though. Whenever they pass away, they always set aside a few grand which we spend on having a party to celebrate their lives.Open bars, bucking broncos, sumo wrestling suits, stuff like that. It allows the kids to have a good time and remember the fun they had with their family. I suppose it's just our way of 'grieving', but we've never been a family that likes dressing up in black and crying into handkerchiefs.Eh, each person grieves in their own way, but I've never understood the whole 'Stand around keeping up appearances'. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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