Problems With Connecting other people

[cooldood92]

Ok i have tried the Ip that it says in the eclipse server, the same one is in my internet settings. I set the port the 4003\. Ip chiken gave me a different ip and a different port each time. I don't reall know what to do. When I want sombody else to play my game do I just send them my client folder? I'm using Total Eclipse. I've tried the following:

Regular IP (169.254.183.29)
Port I Set: 4003
OR

IP Chiken IP (67.71.178.20)
Port I Set: 4003

I never botherd with the IP chiken and when I use my default gateway I don't get my router so I don't think I need to port forward at all I've also tried my Ip doing this I found other Ip's

Ethernet adapter Wireless Network Connection:

        Connection-specific DNS Suffix  . :
        Autoconfiguration IP Address. . . : 169.254.183.29
        Subnet Mask . . . . . . . . . . . : 255.255.0.0
        Default Gateway . . . . . . . . . :

Ethernet adapter Local Area Connection:

        Connection-specific DNS Suffix  . :
        IP Address. . . . . . . . . . . . : 192.168.0.1
        Subnet Mask . . . . . . . . . . . : 255.255.255.0
        Default Gateway . . . . . . . . . :

PPP adapter Broadband Connection:

        Connection-specific DNS Suffix  . :
        IP Address. . . . . . . . . . . . : 67.71.178.20
        Subnet Mask . . . . . . . . . . . : 255.255.255.255
        Default Gateway . . . . . . . . . : 67.71.178.20

That's some info I found typing ipconfig or whatever in the command line can sombody help please??

all in all I cannot get other people to connect with my server I don't know but maybe it's the guy's computer I don't know I think it's server problems I cannect with:

IP: 169.254.183.29
Port: 4003